Girls - Features - Ageing

Some Girls are simply attractive at the first sight.
But not all are endowed with very fine features.
And liking of a certain feature differs from person to person depending on his perception of beauty, his/her liking etc., etc.,
when a Girl is strikingly beautiful at first sight then she may not continue to be so always in the longer run.
When looked at again and again and very closely one may find that certain aspects of features are not so good.
For some the nose may be nice
For some others the eyes may be shining
For some the chin and its protrusion may be attractive
For some the lips may be appealing
Like this every one feature may be unique and special in a particular Girl
Only very few Girls have all the features attractive and appealing always
They are exceptions.
When one closely look at an attractive Girl she may soon expose her deficiencies one by one in due course
The nose may not be so nice as one would like it to be
The eyes may not be as bright as one would want it to be
The chin may not be as good as one thought it to be in the first instance
The lips may not be as appealing as they appeared initially etc., etc.,
Even famous cine stars expose their deficiencies when one looks and inspects them closely over a period of time
The same is true with other Girls also
One may not look attractive at the first instance
But in due course one may find the special features of that particular person and start admiring that feature in that person
Above all Good Nature and other finer qualities like affection, care and attention are more important as people grow older than looks
There is a case where those who were once beauty queens in their teens turned not so beautiful oldies with growing age.
There are cases where those who were not at all beautiful in their younger days turned to be better and more beautiful in their old age
There are of course few who are always beautiful in both their teens and in their old agae
Similarly there are few who are not beautiful in their teens and continue to be so even when they grow old
But the funniest part of life is that degree of beauty changes from person to person and entirely depends on the viewer and it differs as perceived by the individual who looks at the person

Girls, Girls and Girls

Girls have their own priorities, preferences and tastes.
They have a mind, they are independent and have their own likes and dislikes.
I am mentioning this only because for many men women are like toys to be played with and used and thrown out.
They never value the Girl as another human being just like himself.
Let us look at different types of girls now.
One girl may look very beautiful, very fair, with a well structured body and at the outset she may be admirable and everybody may fall for her and would love to own her and or enjoy her beauty.
But if one get close to her and know her intimately then one may find the following traits in her..
she may be very lazy with no inclination to cook or to maintain a house or even willing to rear her own children properly.
Her interests may be the following.
a)enjoy life without any hard work or responsibilities
b)wear costly clothes and jewels and boast before others
c)roam about places as and when she likes without any control
d)remain uncontrolled and no one can make her realize her position in the family or in the society
e)she may be selfish, arrogant and without any affection towards any one

If one finds such a girl,however she may be beautiful, can one marry her and enjoy life.
Life will be miserable for that person who marries such a girl.

This is equally applicable to all girls who may possess the above qualities whether they are beautiful or not.

But mere beauty alone will not make any one happy.

Possessing qualities like
a)affection towards husband and all others as much as required
b)realizing one's limitations and enjoying within permissible limits
c)possessing good qualities like not being selfish, greedy, jealous, unruly etc.,
d)effectively shouldering one's responsibilities and making life worth living for oneself and others around as much as possible

etc., are worth searching for in a girl when one wants to get married to her.

I know a woman with very good looks but she is very weak and anemic without enough blood and always requires medical assistance frequently.

Then how can that beauty, good looks benefit the person marrying her.

And there are few girls who are not satisfied with their own husbands.
They want and go after other men.

With economic freedom and higher education women have become free from the clutches of bad husbands and other relatives but this freedom has also enables them to compare all men they come across and at times crave for men who are better than their own husbands.

In the younger days one has no experience and when in love could not see and understand a person fully and only after marriage is able to know in full about the other partner. But then it is too late. What to do ? This is Life.

share market

Invest only your surplus money which you can afford to lose if necessary.
Then you will have no regrets.
Be careful and watch the market
Do not expect returns early and learn to wait
Act in the share market like a Bear & a Bull
Know how to charge like a Bull and then to hold on like a Bear when necessary.
When the prices are high then charge like a Bull and sell your shares
When the prices are low hold on to your shares like a Bear
Patience and Right Decision Making are Important
To judge correctly and act fast are important
Do not invest much until you learn enough in the market
But at last you may find that it is sheer luck and have no need to use your brain always
It is like gambling only - at times
Various factors affect the share market
You will have to keep watch on the market always atleast an hour in a day
Divide the shares into two groups
a) for long term investment to be held like a bear
b) short term investments to be bought and sold fast like a bull charging
Act at the right time
Judging the right time to act and a bit of luck will get you money

If money is needed for specific needs like education, wedding, construction or medical aid etc., then share market is not for you.

Demanding & Accepting Bribes and Cheating Others for Financial Benefits

If there are two persons, say, A & B and if A is demanding a bribe from B or if A tries to cheat B and benefit financially out of that cheating then I am sorry for A.
Because this is the Truth and nothing but Truth and Truth has to be accepted.
In this case A is in a position equivalent to the situation of a person who will have to eat the human waste of another person. A 's act of demanding a bribe from B is equivalent to A eating the human waste of B. A is no better than any silly street beggar and is to be considered as a born bastard.
This equally applies to all the persons demanding a bribe or cheating others for financial benefits or those who are greedy for ill gotten and undeserving wealth.
Because the person bribing him will feel as above only and the act of A nothing better than eating the human waste of the person giving the bribe or being cheated.
Moral laws are very strict and no one can escape from them. Even though many such persons may appear to be rich, powerful and happy in reality he will be suffering from so many secret problems and ailments and will not have a happy life.
Appearances are false and the actual true inside story is not known to others.
Live an honest, sincere life and enjoy the benefits of it.
Earning in wrong ways and spending them again in hospitals and doing penances to appease Gods later is usually the work of fools and idiots only and wise people know better ways of living this life in this world.
Learn them and enjoy life.

Momentum - Understand Newton's Laws of Motion

If one learns and understands in full the Newton's Laws of Motion and rules relating to Momentum there will be fewer accidents, skidding and spinal problems for the rider, driver and passengers.

Human Kind - Sample 3

I had a subordinate officer who has been selected by me as sample 3.
He is honest, hard working and systematic in his work. He is dependable.
But he had bad memories of his harsh younger years. Those who had difficult times while they were young are mostly found withdrawn and do not trust or mingle with other people easily.And our friend is one such person. So one cannot see a smile or happiness in his countenance most of the times.He always looks rough and tough and even while talking to any one during the course of business he will be found to be harsh to them.
But once again I repeat, He is honest, hard working, systematic and dependable.
And he is working in a service industry where interaction with customers is very essential and is the only work most of the time.
During the annual exercise of updating service reports of all employees and officers I made the suggestion that he may be posted in a place where he need not interact with other human beings.
And the next assignment he had was inside a computer room where he has to manage the machines only most of the times and his exposure to other human beings is very minimal.
He enjoyed the work and the institution also benefited because he managed the machines so well that they had fewer problems from machines side.
Identifying one's strengths and weaknesses and allotting suitable work to that person is the paramount duty of a Manager/Leader to maximize output and full utilization of available Human Resources.
All the Best.

Human Kind - Sample 2

The smiling boy.

Today I went to the famous Saravana Bhavan Hotel at Vada Palani in Chennai the capital of Tamilnadu in India.
This Hotel simply sprang up from nothing in the recent years and has overtaken in popularity the olden days giants like Dasaprakash and Woodlands Group of Hotels in Chennai.
They introduced popular dishes like Vada etc and changed the style of functioning of the Hotel Industry and became a success story and now enjoy a chain of Hotels in Chennai, India and Abroad.
The Waiter who attended me had such a bright and smiling face that I could not help but smile at him and spoke with him.
As he is very shy and did not want his name to be published I am not revealing his name but he requested me to give publicity to his employer by mentioning the name of the Hotel.
But his smiling bright face is so inviting and warm that it may everyone around him happy and relaxed.
I have seen many smiling faces in my life but this one is really number one and different.
Only such people are fit to be employed in service industries where the employees come into direct contact with different customers.
Especially a hotel where many come and go with so many tensions and problems can easily get relieved of their tensions and become relaxed by simply seeing this person and become happy with his service with a smile which is very soothing to everyone.
Every service industry where customer service is the priority should search and find such sweet smiling faced human beings and employ them encourage them and provide best customer service to their users.
May his tribe increase.
Let us find and use such people to spread happiness around them everywhere.
God has created many such persons to make life happier and pleasant.
Thank YOU Lord

Human Kind - Sample 1

The Funny Girl

I have an account in a hi tech branch that means it permits only high value customers to have an account with them.
A girl of course with some good looks is recently appointed there.
I visited the branch to take draft for a very small amount it being the examination fees for my MBA Course with IGNOU.
I was the only customer in that branch at that time and the girl at the counter did not have much work also.
She gave me a broad smile when I entered the Branch and after I am seated comfortably before her simply ignored me and was simply wasting time looking here and there and at the screen without any purpose.
After five minutes she again smiled at me politely and apologized with a sweet 'Please Excuse me, Sir' and continued to do nothing but opening the drawer of her counter and closing it, looking at the printer and adjusting it etc..
I could simply find that she is lazy idiot and simply wasting my time by simply doing nothing useful.
But I am very patient person and so I simply watched her with amusement.
Thus after smiling atleast ten times and repeating a sweet 'Please Excuse me, Sir' ten times she atlast received the draft application and the cash and slowly as if she is walking on a moon moved herself to issue a draft to me for that very small amount.
Normally any ordinary person would have taken only 3 to 5 minutes to complete the whole process however one may work.
But this funny girl took a solid 50 minutes to issue a draft, that too for a very meager amount.
she is the most funniest creature I have ever seen on this earth - a lazy idiot.
May God save her soul.

Managing Emotions - It is an Art

Managing involves enabling control and one has to be strict in implementing the control mechanism.
Being strict and having control over men and things is different from shouting and losing control over one self.
Few Managers resort to shouting and exhibit anger openly with a purpose. It is a controlled action on their part and they are not lost in the moods and inwards stay relaxed but outwardly appear to be agitated and angry.
This planned and controlled emotions are good to manage affairs and everything is under control.
But many Managers are personally irritated and lose control of themselves when faced with problems and difficulties and resort to uncontrolled shouting and act in fits of anger thereby losing their head resulting in bad decisions and end in disaster.
This is because they are not equipped with the qualities to shoulder the responsibilities they are now asked to do and therefore being weak, foolish and in frustration they react so badly and it affects their health and decision making process.
These people are to be removed from these responsibilities in the interest of these individuals and also the organization.
These idiots are drag on the organization and one can see many such people in abundance in Government Offices and Public Sector Enterprises and at times in some private organizations also.
May God save these people and the organizations they are working for.

Retirement - why people are afraid of Retirement ?

Most of the people shiver at the thought of getting retired in due course.
They feel helpless, less important and feel dejected and do not know what to do after retirement ?
Because mostly they are non performers while they were in a job and they were non achievers.
They have not achieved anything in their life while in service and had no ambition or ideals to follow.
And these people mostly would have been either humble servants doing their jobs as they knew or as their masters wanted them to be or they would have been arrogant and harassing all those who would have approached in their course of business.
After retirement they become easily sick and become a burden on the society.
I am sorry about these poor things.
May God Bless them with a Better Life.

The Funny People - I can only laugh at them

I have seen many people working in many low positions in various Government and other Organizations posing as if they are very important and misbehaving all the time with illiterate and humble people who happen to come to them to get their things done in the usual course of their business.
But these same people shiver before people of power and wag their tails like street dogs and look like beggars before them and do the duties asked by these so called powerful people with fear and respect.
These people are cowards and silly people.
Neither is required - They need not be arrogant and haughty with the humble people nor behave like silly beggars before people who wield power in the society.
I can only laugh at these funny people for their behaviors.

Our Agriculturists are slowly leaving agriculture in large numbers to migrate to bigger cities and towns to work as laborers because they hate village life which is without electricity power and need their work in the middle of the night.
Agriculture needs only a certain required amount of water daily in the morning and at times in the evening also.
Neither more nor less.
Most of the lands meant for agriculture depend on electricity to draw water for irrigation purposes.
They need only limited quantity of electricity to draw water and once sufficient quantity of water is available for agricultural operations they have to stop providing water for irrigation as otherwise the crops will be flooded and die.
Proper time for watering the plants is morning around 5 to 6 am and in the evening 6 to 7 pm. But our funny masters who manage electricity supply provide power for agricultural operations in the middle of the night most of the times in the villages.
Is it not cruelty to provide power in the middle of the night in a village where the fields are muddy and ridden with snakes and all insects.
The cities and towns can afford to be without power between these timings in the morning and evening so that until sufficient power is generated the available power may be provided to the village to carry on agricultural operations when it is needed by them to work in comfort and safety so that all can have food always to eat.

Truth - Only Truth & Bitter Truth

When we go to a Doctor we require him to be efficient, effective and do his duty sincerely.
When we send our children to a school we expect the teacher to be sincere and efficient and teach our children all abilities.
When we travel in an automobile we want the Driver to be efficient and drive carefully.
But when we work in our office are we,
Honest,
Sincere,
Efficient
Effective.
We want others to be endowed with qualities which we do not possess or are not willing to acquire and follow.

We amass ill gotten wealth, make others' life miserable with our arrogant and foolish acts but when we get into trouble we go about praying to God and try to appease the Gods by doing so many things.
If God accepts all your gifts and prayers and helps you to overcome your difficulties when you continue to live your life in the same old bad way then he is not really a God and he can never be called a God.

We usually visit a Doctor say a family Doctor and get treatment only from him.
Occasionally when he is not able to attend on us and during emergencies when we are away from him we go to a Different Doctor to get treatment.
And he also treats us and cures our ailment.
Then he is not saying that only our own Doctor should be seen for getting the treatment. And we never wait for him to be available to come and treat us in times of emergencies or when he is away for a longer durations.

But in almost many organizations when we visit for a service unless that particular person is available we are asked to come again when only that person is available.
There is not much difference between Life and File.
Files also deal with lives of all the people only.
And to the Doctors life is also like a file only but they deal with more care.
And that will not give us any excuse to deal with files in a more careless way.

Files also should be attended to with sincerity and due care as a Doctor will attend a patient.

Decent persons will do so only.

Only fools and rogues will do the other way - careless, dishonest and inefficient.

Justice delayed is Justice denied.
In the courts we find that a lot of time is wasted in following practices that were formulated long time back.
One example is calling work done every morning.
The system can really be improved if only all in the Judicial System think for a while.
I used to be told that the present system is so only to avoid people rushing to courts for every simple reason.
I cannot accept that.
If Doctors start saying that they will not cure diseases faster but will allow it to be there for longer durations to prevent people from falling sick often with bad habits etc..how will that be.
The Doctors will say then only people will follow good habits and keep themselves more healthy.

Please Think it Over.