Girls have their own priorities, preferences and tastes.
They have a mind, they are independent and have their own likes and dislikes.
I am mentioning this only because for many men women are like toys to be played with and used and thrown out.
They never value the Girl as another human being just like himself.
Let us look at different types of girls now.
One girl may look very beautiful, very fair, with a well structured body and at the outset she may be admirable and everybody may fall for her and would love to own her and or enjoy her beauty.
But if one get close to her and know her intimately then one may find the following traits in her..
she may be very lazy with no inclination to cook or to maintain a house or even willing to rear her own children properly.
Her interests may be the following.
a)enjoy life without any hard work or responsibilities
b)wear costly clothes and jewels and boast before others
c)roam about places as and when she likes without any control
d)remain uncontrolled and no one can make her realize her position in the family or in the society
e)she may be selfish, arrogant and without any affection towards any one
If one finds such a girl,however she may be beautiful, can one marry her and enjoy life.
Life will be miserable for that person who marries such a girl.
This is equally applicable to all girls who may possess the above qualities whether they are beautiful or not.
But mere beauty alone will not make any one happy.
Possessing qualities like
a)affection towards husband and all others as much as required
b)realizing one's limitations and enjoying within permissible limits
c)possessing good qualities like not being selfish, greedy, jealous, unruly etc.,
d)effectively shouldering one's responsibilities and making life worth living for oneself and others around as much as possible
etc., are worth searching for in a girl when one wants to get married to her.
I know a woman with very good looks but she is very weak and anemic without enough blood and always requires medical assistance frequently.
Then how can that beauty, good looks benefit the person marrying her.
And there are few girls who are not satisfied with their own husbands.
They want and go after other men.
With economic freedom and higher education women have become free from the clutches of bad husbands and other relatives but this freedom has also enables them to compare all men they come across and at times crave for men who are better than their own husbands.
In the younger days one has no experience and when in love could not see and understand a person fully and only after marriage is able to know in full about the other partner. But then it is too late. What to do ? This is Life.
Some Girls are very efficient in their own offices and many men fall for her and after getting married to her find that she is still efficient in the office and office related works but unfit and inefficient in the home front.
ReplyDeleteBecause they are office birds and not suitable for being a Home Maker.
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ReplyDeleteSome Girls are very efficient in their own offices and many men fall for them and after getting married to them find that they are still efficient in the office and office related works but unfit and inefficient in the home front.
Because they are office birds and not suitable for being Home Makers.
Set your life pattern, know your own style of living, your priorities, preferences and tastes and then choose a partner matching these qualities. Then life will be beautiful, enjoyable and rewarding.
ReplyDeleteAll the Best.
Sir, Nice to read two articles on girls, their beauty, character, etc etc,
ReplyDeleteI mite be a person of average looks, with little curable health problems then and now but the good deeds and thoughts I carry was of no use when it came to marriage.......did you think on something called horoscope match-making in Indian system of marriage??? Girls compromise on lot of things to be with the one they love and feel compatible but their dreams and desires are shattered by this cruel custom of match making....I am an office bird too but family has always been my priority, I have always valued relationships in my life as I never got to be in one.
You should think something for girls who are better in all aspects and still are dejected because of their stars...
Horoscopes and match making are at times scientific. But I have my own doubts whether these horoscopes are correctly written as even a small change in the timings can change the fortunes of the person. Also many astrologers are fake and are not qualified and they do not read and interpret horoscopes properly.
ReplyDeleteHence even though astrology is a science the practitioners' competence is often questionable.
Astrologers themselves at times say that after some age horoscopes need not be given any importance.
I believe in the Supreme Power above us.
Therefore after waiting for some time please motivate your parents and other relatives not rely on horoscopes alone and start looking for a suitable match for YOU.
All the Best.
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